For beginners, strap-on sex may seem to be intimidating. However, with this easy guide and a little practice you will soon find yourself an expert. There are two types of strap-ons, male strap-ons and female strap-ons. Some strap-ons can be used by males as well as females. Strap-ons come with a dildo or vibrator that is used for penetration.
Males who find it difficult to attain or maintain an erection often use strap-ons, whereas some males use a strap-on vibrator to enjoy masturbation while penetrating with a strap-on vibrator. Women use a strap-on vibrator to penetrate their partner anally. Whatever you choose to do with strap-ons, they can help to bring lots of variety to dull and boring sex sessions. Here's how you can go about selecting and using strap on toys:
1. Selecting a harness
Most strap-ons come with adjustable straps that are made to fit all sizes. Make sure you buy a strap-on made from nylon, for better comfort and fit.
2. Selecting an o-ring
An o-ring is the ring from which you can pass your vibrator or dildo. An o-ring should be flexible enough to accommodate dildos of various sizes.
3. Putting a dildo in an o-ring
It is very easy to put in a dildo in an o-ring. Some strap-ons come with a vibrator that fits the o-ring perfectly, so that will not pose any problem. If the strap-on you buy doesn't come with a vibrator or dildo, make sure you buy a strap-on with flexible o-ring that can fit your own dildo.
4. Wearing a harness
The next step after putting in a dildo is to wear a harness. These harnesses come with adjustable straps and so people of all sizes can wear them comfortably. The harnesses usually come with a buckle to secure the harness in place.
5. Communication
It is important that you and your partner communicate with each other properly before you use a strap-on. This is very important because you wouldn’t want to be surprised while you are at it. Thoroughly discuss all the aspects, including the position you would like to try first, who is going to play which role and ask each other at regular intervals if they are comfortable. This will make you first strap-on sex not only successful but also intimate and loving.
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