Cuddle signals – Know what your man is like when you cuddle up

Your man might look tough, but in his heart he is pure mush. When he holds you against him, it means a lot of things - primarily love, protection and understanding. Your man’s cuddle will also give an insight into his mind and his sexuality.

The dependable nurturer

Is your man is in the habit of cuddling you against his chest; it’s a way of showing that he’s there to take care of you. He’s the kind of man who is going to soothe your sinking spirits at the end of a hard day’s work and somebody who can be depended on, even in the most difficult of situation. This cuddle also speaks volumes for what he is going to be like in bed. He’s going to want to take charge, and more often than not, his favorite position will be missionary and doggie style. He is a man who knows what he wants sexually and is not afraid to use masturbators like fleshlights for addressing his pleasure needs.

The spooning cuddle

Another common cuddle is the ‘spoon’. This is a very physical cuddle; your bum’s going to meet his package. Its full body contact at its best; what’s more his hands are free to do some naughty work. Such men usually have high libido. Psychologists suggest that such men have difficulty in expressing their emotions, allowing their body to do all the talking for them. For such men, actions speak louder than words. Such men might also love using male sex toys.

The cuddle in your lap

If you love taking care of your man, you are going to love this cuddle. Men who love putting their heads in their partner’s lap are sensitive and extremely comfortable about their emotions. Some of these men might also look towards you as somebody who can help them feel better.

If you are evaluating your partner, keeping the cuddle, his cuddle, as one of parameters is a good idea. So, now when your man gives you a cuddle, you can actually preempt what he is thinking.

Experience an orgasm – Its good for you

An orgasm is definitely good for you. Apart from the extremely pleasurable sensations that you experience, it’s also a winner from a health perspective. This amazing feeling that is laced with the health benefits has also made sex toys very popular. Both men and women aren’t averse to experiencing orgasms using sex toys like masturbation sleeves and Rabbit vibrators.

Here are the reasons why an orgasm is good for you.

- Stress buster

An orgasm relieves you of all the stress and tension that’s built up in your body. During an orgasm the muscles of your body tighten, flex and relax post climax. This helps permeate a feeling of relaxation and satisfaction. Your mind in the time immediately preceding an orgasm is free from worries. It’s not necessary that the orgasm is a result of partner sex. You can even use sex toys for experiencing an orgasm. The benefits are the same.

- Good for your organs

An orgasm results in an increase of blood flow and also improves the circulation in the body. An improvement in the circulation of blood also helps improve the circulation of oxygen and the essential nutrients to the various organs of the body. This helps keep the functioning of the organs in top working order.

- Pain relief

When you orgasm, a release of endorphins takes place. These endorphins are natural pain alleviators that can provide relief from cramps or headaches. Even if you are somebody, who isn’t sexually active, you can still get your daily dose of endorphins using you trusty Rabbit vibrators or the classic dildo.

- Sleep better

If you orgasm, before going to bed, you are going to sleep better. An orgasm is like a natural tranquilizer that has a calming effect on the senses. As a result of an orgasm you feel at peace with yourself and your body gets a good night’s rest. Good, uninterrupted sleep is a good idea for everybody.

For many, who never really thought about whether an orgasm is good for you or not, the benefits will come across as an eye opener. Don’t believe the rumors that orgasms are bad for your body. Ignore those rumours and go get your daily dose of orgasms either from partner sex or by using sex toys.

Can using sex toys create problems in your relationship?

You must have come across various materials that talk about the benefits of using adult toys in a relationship. The benefits cannot be denied but there is also evidence to suggest that these toys might also affect your relationship negatively. So, instead of improving your sex life, using male sex toys or for that matter even female sex toys, they can potentially worsen an already fragile relationship.

The up and down syndrome

Say your relationship is going downhill. The reasons for this could be many and varied, but you may try and address the various issues by choosing one of the many adult toys that are available on the market. Initially, the fascination of the toy will see you and your partner having fun with it and looking forward to its use. But, what happens when this fascination wears off? You will be hard pressed to fill the void left by the lack of interest in the toy. Your relationship may even go further downhill from here.

On the other hand, if you have already put things into motion you may have already improved your relationship; using male sex toys or female sex toys with your partner will further energize your relationship. By the time you lose interest in the adult toys, your relationship will have already become stronger.

An orgasm only through adult toys

If you are unable to experience an orgasm through penile thrusts, you might think about using a female adult toy, like the vibrator. Once you successfully use the adult toy, you may be tempted to use the toy regularly. As a result, your dependency on your partner continues to decrease, which can lead to a sexual and emotional disconnection. This will take a toll on your relationship. One of the ways of mixing the adult toys usage in your sex life is to use them as a tool for stimulating your body. This will help you to achieve orgasm from your partner’s penile thrusts. The use of adult toys in this way will make sure that they don’t adversely affect your relationship.

Intelligent sex toys use will ensure that you will enhance your relationship. At the end of the day, adult sex toys are just inanimate objects. They can in no way compensate for a real man.