Thursday, May 6, 2010

Can using sex toys create problems in your relationship?


You must have come across various materials that talk about the benefits of using adult toys in a relationship. The benefits cannot be denied but there is also evidence to suggest that these toys might also affect your relationship negatively. So, instead of improving your sex life, using male sex toys or for that matter even female sex toys, they can potentially worsen an already fragile relationship.

The up and down syndrome

Say your relationship is going downhill. The reasons for this could be many and varied, but you may try and address the various issues by choosing one of the many adult toys that are available on the market. Initially, the fascination of the toy will see you and your partner having fun with it and looking forward to its use. But, what happens when this fascination wears off? You will be hard pressed to fill the void left by the lack of interest in the toy. Your relationship may even go further downhill from here.

On the other hand, if you have already put things into motion you may have already improved your relationship; using male sex toys or female sex toys with your partner will further energize your relationship. By the time you lose interest in the adult toys, your relationship will have already become stronger.

An orgasm only through adult toys

If you are unable to experience an orgasm through penile thrusts, you might think about using a female adult toy, like the vibrator. Once you successfully use the adult toy, you may be tempted to use the toy regularly. As a result, your dependency on your partner continues to decrease, which can lead to a sexual and emotional disconnection. This will take a toll on your relationship. One of the ways of mixing the adult toys usage in your sex life is to use them as a tool for stimulating your body. This will help you to achieve orgasm from your partner’s penile thrusts. The use of adult toys in this way will make sure that they don’t adversely affect your relationship.

Intelligent sex toys use will ensure that you will enhance your relationship. At the end of the day, adult sex toys are just inanimate objects. They can in no way compensate for a real man.

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