Thursday, June 17, 2010

3 secrets to experience a truly seismic orgasm


You must have come across the word “earth shattering orgasm”. You might be wondering what such an orgasm is all about, because you have never, till date, experienced an orgasm of truly seismic proportions. You might have used your trusty little rabbit vibrator for this purpose, but what if you want to experience such orgasms during sexual intercourse?

Here are 3 secrets that will help your orgasm hit the roof. These are simple sex secrets that any and every woman can integrate in her sex life.

Secret 1: Don’t “wonder” whether you are going to have an orgasm or not?

Wondering whether you are actually going to experience an orgasm during sexual intercourse will not get you anywhere. On the other hand; telling yourself “Yes, I am definitely going to have one”, will pave the way for a wonderful orgasm. The focus will shift to the way you are going to have an orgasm. Orgasm is like a self-fulfilling prophecy; if you know you will get one and more importantly enjoy one, you won’t have any problems in experiencing one.

Secret 2: It’s all in the mind honey!

So what’s the most powerful sex organ, you have? If your answer is your vagina, clitoris or even your breasts, you have got it all wrong. Your mind is the most powerful sex organ you have, if you can only use it well. Bury your distractions in the deep recesses of your mind, when you are having sex. Concentrating on the matter at hand is a sure shot way of experiencing a blockbuster orgasm. Don’t believe it? Well, just try visualizing what you are doing while you are having sex. The images that will form in your mind are the biggest turn on. You are a part of your very own sexual fantasy! All you now need to do is go through the motions, till you experience heaven.

Secret 3: Sticking to a particular position

There are some people who might advocate trying out different positions and methods of stimulation to experience a mind boggling orgasm. But, in doing so, if you come across the position or activity that helps you orgasm, it’s important to stick to it. Allow your muscles to get used to that particular position that makes for sky rocketing pleasure. So, while having sex, try out any new positions that you want or use new ways of stimulation.

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