Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Anal exploration – Your way to sexual bliss

Many men and women are turning to anal sex. There is a gradual shift in couples, as anal sex is no longer considered a dirty, unhealthy, painful or heinous act. Anal sex has also gained lots of popularity because of the wide range of anal toys on the market. Anal toys have made it easier for straight couples, homosexual couples and even singles to try something new. Couples who are bored of routine sex and vaginal penetration first try anal sex without any aids, later turning to anal toys, as they make entry easier and less painful. Anal toys are especially good for first time anal experiences.

There are anal toys for men too on the market. They are known as prostate toys. These toys were previously believed to only be for gay men and were not accepted as mainstream toys. But lately, the pleasures and therapeutic benefits of prostate massage has increased the popularity of prostate toys in the mainstream market too.

If you are experimenting with anal sex for the first time, you must keep some things in mind. First and foremost, always use lots and lots of lubricant. Silicone lubricants are your best bet, as they don’t dry up easily. However, if you are using silicone-based anal toys, don’t use silicone lubricants, as these can cause damage to your favourite toys.

You can also use flavoured lubes, as these lubes make the whole experience more sensually pleasing. If you are inexperienced and nervous using anal toys for the first time, the first thing to do is calm these nerves as it tenses up muscles.

Anal toys are made with soft, skin-friendly materials that do not cause stretching of the anal opening and don’t hurt you in any way. If you are with a partner and still wish to use anal toys, buy prostate toys for him too. This will make the whole experience more fulfilling and you’ll both experience simultaneous sexual delight. Once you get the hang of it, anal sex will take you to sexual ‘nirvana’ in no time!

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